FOURTH
SUNDAY OF LENT C 2022
Today’s
Gospel, the parable of the Prodigal Son, is one of the most loved of all the
parables. Actually, it is wonderful
parable of the merciful, forgiving Father.
It can be rightly called the Parable of the Forgiving Father.
Sometimes
messages can be confusing: For example,
Wife texts
husband on a cold winter morning:
“Windows frozen; won’t open.”
Husband texts
back: “Gently pour some lukewarm water
over it and then gently hit the edges with a hammer.”
Wife texts
back 10 minutes later: “Computer really
messed up now.”
Yes,
messages can be confusing at times: Is
this Gospel parable more about the prodigal son or the forgiving father?
The way I
would like to reflect on this parable with you today is to see how this parable
tells two ways we can become alienated from God. It is the parable of two lost sons. What they share in common is the absence of
joy in their lives. It is hard for them
to rejoice in the joy and the celebration of the father in this parable.
I invite you
to consider the stuck point for both the prodigal son and his older
brother. Both of the sons had a falling
out with the father. The younger son is lost in sin, and the older son is lost
in self-righteousness. Neither was
filled with joy.
It’s
appropriate that we pray over this parable on Laetare Sunday; Rejoice
Sunday. The color of our liturgical
vestments indicates that joy is to mark our discipleship of the Lord Jesus.
In the
parable, the younger son insults his father by asking for his share of his
inheritance. But instead of responding
with offense and the desire to banish his son, he gives his son what he wanted
– his share of the inheritance. He then
squandered what he had in irresponsible living.
Soon he experienced emptiness and famine. He then resigns himself to being treated like
a hired hand. His sin has become his
identity. He is no longer son; he is a
sinner.
But when his
father spotted his son off in the distance beginning his return home, he is
filled with joy at the sight of his son.
All that the father cares about is that his son was lost and now is
found. Celebration is the only
response. Joy replaces the need to
discipline and punish his son.
The
encounter of the joyous father and his repentant son is a moving image of God’s
abundant love and forgiveness and joy.
It is shocking. It undoes our
conventional sense of fairness and the need for discipline and gives a
wonderful image of the desire that God has to share forgiveness and pardon with
us.
The God of
the Parable of the Prodigal Son is a forgiving, loving Father.
In contrast,
the elder son in the parable, the good and obedient son, doesn’t get it. His brother doesn’t deserve such abundant
love. He should be punished and
disciplined. Perhaps he should be
excommunicated. There is no way the
older brother could find joy in his heart.
Who of us
can say that there is not a little bit of the older brother in each and every
one of us? I must confess there is a bit
of the older brother that needs to be rooted out of me. I have had many years of training in keeping
laws and rules and regulations and get jealous or angry if someone is not
keeping the rules like I try to do. We
older brothers can be very self-righteous and judgmental of others.
Instead of
being joyful for the love and forgiveness our loving God offers to sinners, we
have a tendency to coach God on how to be God.
Being cold like the older brother is a worse fate spiritually than being
in the recklessness of the younger son.
The fun-loving, sinful younger son won the favors of his father even
before he admitted his sins. This is
something the older son could not do.
His own lack
of joy makes him a lost son. The
resentment of the older son happens when we live in an external game of merit
rather than rejoicing in the inner abundance of God’s grace that is given to
each and every one of us.
We are made
in God’s image. In God’s likeness, we
are called to mirror his compassion and forgiveness. The revelation of God as grace should make us
rejoice. But before we can celebrate, we
must deal with the two conflicting mindsets that this parable illustrates. Like the younger son, we can be so attached
to our past sins, and so we cannot quite believe we are sons and daughters of
love. This keeps us from joy.
Or we can be alienated from the simple
presence of God’s abundant love. This
happens when our spiritual journey is only about reward and punishment and find
ourselves resentful and envious. This
too keeps us from joy. Only when we
break the stranglehold of these two blocking mindsets will we hear the music in
the house and know we are at home.
In this
parable, God wants us to know that we are all sinners. Whether our sins are explicitly outrageous
like those of the younger son or whether we are much more self-righteous and
think that the abundance of God’s grace is not fair, the message is that all of
us in a spirit of humility need to call us to repentance and to rejoice, to
find joy in God’s excessive love for each and every one of us.
May this
Lenten be an opportunity to celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation and
celebrate the forgiving, healing love of our God.
May we see
the sacrament of reconciliation not just through the lens of obligation or
guilt; rather can reconciliation be a source of joy and celebration as was the
experience of the prodigal son when his forgiving father celebrated with
extravagant joy at the reconciliation of his younger son.
Again, our Lenten mantra is the words spoken to us
on Ash Wednesday: Repent and Believe in
the Gospel. We repent so that we can
rejoice in the reconciling love that God has for each one of us.
May God give
you the gift of joy.