Sunday, August 31, 2025

Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.

 

 

Twenty Second in OT  C  2025

 

In the first Scripture reading from the Book of Sirach, we read:  ‘My child, conduct your affairs with humility, and you will be loved more than a giver of gifts.  Humble yourself the more, the greater you are, and you will find favor with God.

This Old Testament teaching on humility is a lead-in to today’s Gospel.  From the evangelist Luke,  Jesus’ table fellowship is the context for teaching.  Much of Jesus’ teaching takes place in or around meals.  Jesus also will share table fellowship with anyone from Pharisee to leper.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus is at a banquet and He notices how people scrambles to sit at places of honor.  It’s a very human scene –we are like recognition, respect, and prestige.  But Jesus turns that moment into a teaching on humility:  “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles will be exalted.”

Jesus is dining at the home of a leading Pharisee.  Jesus has obviously been invited for more than pleasant conversation.  The people at the meal are observing him carefully.  He is known for not following protocol during his table fellowship.  As the story proceeds, the dynamic shifts from the people observing Jesus to Jesus observing them. He is a wisdom teacher offering lessons in humility.

As Jesus observes the how the guests migrate immediately to places of honor, Jesus turns the notions of honor upside down.  Jesus says it is humility that brings honor in the eyes of God.

As we well know, in the political arena, in the sports world, and all too often in corporate life, climbing the ladder of success leads us to a self-centeredness that places ourselves at the center of the universe.

The disciples of Jesus are to have a healthy sense of the value and the virtue of humility.  C. S. Lewis says that “humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less.”  Humility leads to compassion and leads to be involved in the lives of others.  Humility is not poor self-esteem; it is not a refusal to take any credit; a humble person is not disturbed by praise.  Rather, if we desire to be humble, we need to look into the eyes of people in need and identify with their pain and hurts and to respond with humble love to lift up people in need

Humility is not just modesty about my talents.  It is about looking into the eyes of another and identifying with their hurts.  Moreover, not just their hurts, we are look in the eyes of another and see God’s beauty deep within their spirit.

Humility frees us to see others not as rivals but as brothers and sisters.

And as Jesus indicates in the gospel, without humility we cannot have a relationship with God.  To enter the wedding banquet – and heaven will be a glorious banquet with Jesus as the Bridegroom and the Church as the Bride – to enter the wedding banquet, says Jesus, “take the lowest seat.”

Knowing God makes us humble; knowing ourselves keeps us humble.  All is a gift of God and we are the gracious recipients of God’s merciful love.  The talents we have are God’s gifts to us.  Knowing ourselves and our own limitations keeps us humble.

Jesus goes on even further:  he tells the host not to invite only friends, family or wealthy neighbors—people who can repay him – but the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind.  Why? Because when we reach out to those who cannot repay us, we are imitating the generosity of God Himself.  God loves us not because of what we can give Him, but simple because we are His children.

Humility helps us to see ourselves as God sees us: loved but also in need of His mercy,

In today’s Gospel, Jesus has a strange way of looking on whom to invite and who are the most important.  The point is everyone is invited to the banquet of Jesus.

How do we take this gospel about how to hold a banquet and who to sit next to, how do we put it to work? It isn’t hard to see that every part of our lives are touched by questions of who makes our guest list and who does not. Just for one example, it’s hard not to notice that in such a pleasant suburban place to live as we all live in, separation from others is just part of our world here whether we planned it that way or not, and it’s a constant challenge to ask ourselves about how we feel about the people who are not here, who are not a visible part of this daily world of ours. They are all guests at the same banquet to which we are welcomed.

How are we to react to the unspeakable killing and injuring of the school  children in Minneapolis Catholic school this past Wednesday.  For sure, we are on high alert for the safety of our children.  We deal much too often with the scourge of gun violence.  Our hearts reach out to all who are victims of this violence.

The challenge of today’s gospel is to look honestly at where we seat ourselves in all the settings of our life, and who is included when we look around to see who is with us, who we exclude from the circle of people we refer to when we use the word “us.” We’re building the kingdom heaven here, where we find ourselves, at least that is supposed to be our task, and the kingdom of heaven is a place where literally everyone is invited, equally entitled to be there. And Jesus doesn’t say this, but he implies it, apparently we’re going to be kind of shocked, when we get to that ultimate kingdom of heaven, and find we are reunited not only with those we love but also everyone we didn’t, seated together in a way that has burned away everything that once separated us.

As we gather for this Eucharistic meal today, we reflect on how we have gathered for this meal.  Do we see each other as brothers and sisters?   Do we see ourselves as servants of each other?  Do we see ourselves as the servants of all who are poor?

There must be a welcome in our Eucharistic community for the needy signified by the gospel phrase ‘the poor, crippled, lame, and blind.’  What efforts do we make to ensure that no individual or group is excluded from the Lord’s meal?

 

Have a blessed day.

Sunday, August 24, 2025

The narrow gate is the still small place n our hearts in which we say yes or no to God's love.

 

Twenty First Sunday in OT   C  2025

 

Today’s Gospel catches our undivided attention.   The disciples asked Jesus:  Lord, will only a few people be saved?”  Jesus responds: “Strive to enter through the narrow gate.”

 

Then Jesus goes on to say:  “When once the owner of the house has got up and shut the door, and you begin to stand outside and to knock at the door, saying, ‘Lord, open to us,’ then in reply he will say to you, ‘I do not know where you come from.’”

 

As people strived to enter the narrow door of salvation, the door was shut and people panicked and said: “Lord, open to us.”  Jesus responds:  “I do not know where you come from.”

 

Did you ever think of the Kingdom of God as a gated community?  As a gated community to which I am not welcome!  People who live in gated communities value privacy, security, and safety.  It is usually associated with some degree of affluence.

 

But isn’t the kingdom of God a home for all of God’s people – just the opposite of a gated community, is it not?  All are welcome into the kingdom of God.

 

I invite you to reflect on that haunting statement of Jesus in the Gospel:  ”I do not know where you come from.”  We need to ask ourselves the question:  “Where do you come from?”  It obviously means much more than geography and social connections.  In the Gospel account, people responded to the Lord:  “Lord you know us and where we come from.”  They come from the villages and towns where he taught and the dinner gatherings where he ate and drank.  We played golf together, don’t you remember? But superficial contacts of eating and drinking aren’t going to cut the mustard.

 

There will always be those who want in on their own terms.  They want to enter into the banquet table of the Lord because of who they know.  In all honesty, we need to confess that at times we want to come to God on our own terms.  We try to balance living out our faith amid the many commitments of our life.  We try to fulfill our obligations.

 

 

 

Is it enough to say that I’m spiritual in some abstract fashion.  Is it enough to say I’m spiritual when all is going very, very well.  Does our notion of spirituality embrace accepting the crosses of life?  Where is our spirituality as we struggle and deal with setback and loss and sickness and death?  Where is our spirituality when people disappoint us, and we are disillusioned by the hypocrisy and sinfulness of others?

 

Being spiritual as a disciple of Jesus is the willingness to die to self and center our lives on love of God and love of others.  What are the limits we place on our commitment to others?  Are we the followers of the Christ who died to bring healing to all people?  Being spiritual as a disciple of Jesus is sharing in this Eucharistic banquet Sunday after Sunday after Sunday.  To what degree can we say that the Sunday Eucharist is the source and summit of our prayer life?

 

Being spiritual as a disciple of Jesus is learning the great lesson of grace.  We begin through our efforts and spiritual disciplines to enter through the narrow door but ultimately our spiritual striving leads to spiritual surrender.  To pass through the narrow door means you can’t bring everything with you.You can’t b weighed down with pride, greed, grudges, or self-centeredness.  You have to strip down to the essentials – humility, mercy, faith, and love.  We ultimately live life with open hands and trusting hearts.  We trust in God’s healing grace for us, and we rely on God’s grace to lead us through the narrow door.  When our hope is in the Lord, that narrow door becomes the widest of gates. Our journey through the narrow door is a journey of faith.   All salvation comes from God.

 

The narrow door is not meant to keep people, but to keep us honest about what really belongs in God’s kingdom.

 

The takeaway message of the Gospel is learning this great lesson of grace.

 

Yes, the great lesson of grace calls us to the spiritual discipline of laying down our lives but always with the deep realization that it is not our will power; rather it is God’s loving and healing and forgiving presence in our lives that leads us to the fullness of life.

 

Jesus’ Gospel admonition still catches our attention:  “Strive to enter the narrow door.”  As with the entire Gospel, the “narrow door” is good news, not bad news.  It is the evangelium.  The Evangelium, the Gospel of Jesus is always Good News.  In fact, the narrow door is not so much about the constraint of space that keeps us from access of the kingdom of God.  Rather the narrow door is about the focus of our commitment to discipleship.  Actually the narrow door is the only entryway that is equally available to everyone, regardless of nationality, financial status, respectability, or health.  The narrow door is simply that still, small place in the heart where one says “yes” or “no” to the Gospel message of love.  It is the one place through which no external force can shape or coerce one’s choices.  It is what Theresa of Avila called the “the center of the soul,” wherein God dwells.

 

Finding the narrow door that leads to the center is not a matter of eating and drinking, or of knowing the right people or of reciting the right formulas.  It is, first and last, to share in the heart of Jesus that embraces in love all of God’s people.   Sharing in the heart of Jesus is an act of faith, trusting in the Lord, confident that God will indeed lead us to the narrow door of salvation. 

 

The door is narrow because all of our talents and abilities and disciplines and pieties will not lead us to the heart of Jesus.  For all of us the entreway to the heart of Jesus is simply that act of faith trusting that Jesus accompanies us in all experiences of life.

 

Jesus says in the Gospel that the last shall be first and the first last.  The first are those who have found in their heart what Jesus knew in his heart – divine love makes brothers and sisters of us all.  When we know this, the Lord knows us; and the narrow door becomes the widest of gates.

 

Have a Blessed Day.